I have a 13+ year old who is giving me a run for my money. Depressed and friendless, to rude and sneaky, to cheerful and funny, to mean and defiant, to violent. I've had it all in less than a week. So much for a stress free summer. I fear that she will end up in the hospital again before the summer is done. I really just don't see any positive signs that anything she's been through in the last few months is working. It sucks. I had higher expectations and maybe that's the problem. I don't know.